caret icon Back to all discussions

Grieving in Lupus

How to cope with a passing of a friend! Hard to wrap my head around a dear friend and having Lupus Flares! Guess I have to comfort myself n arms and Hold on to GOD s unchanging hands! My friend had pancreatic cancer And I m having a hard time w her passing hard time for Lupus Flares to pass! How? WHY? Such a good friend stood by my side w Lupus 💜 May She Always Rest in Peace 🙏

  1. ,
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.
    I lost my Dad to pancreatic cancer, it is such a cruel disease. For many, it comes out of nowhere and due to lack of screening/testing by the time one is diagnosed, it is usually in its late stages.
    You need to give yourself some grace and time to grieve. However, the grieving process can certainly exacerbate a chronic condition, adding more physical pain and fatigue.
    Please take care of yourself, give yourself (and your body) time to rest and know that this community is here for help and support.
    Reach out anytime.
    Sending many hugs, Doreen (Team Member)

Please read our rules before posting.