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Problem getting pain meds?

How many have had issues getting pain medications? Has it been a struggle to convince your doctor that your pain is real and has become unbearable?

  1. 22 years and still no help. Even though I have had numerous specialist state I need medicine for chronic pain.😔


    1. With lupus expect anything. I was safe for ten years, no meds, no doctors. And then all of a sudden: pneumonia, then cancer. They used immunotherapy drugs and that is when all came crashing down.

      Still, we all have a lot to deal with and I pray for everyone to keep strong. Thank you for this website! It has become a great source of information with people who understand what you are going through. Thank you everyone!

    2. ,
      We are so grateful you found this community and appreciate your kind words.
      Always know we're here for you.
      Sending many hugs, Doreen (Team Member)

  2. No, they say that because I'm a good girl they do not want to prescribe anything that I may become addicted to is what I was told. To be exact they said that because i have never been in a detox, arrested, have a solid work history, counseling and family support. They were concerned about prescribing anything. This is after 21 emergency room visit in one year. This was told to me by a addiction psychology and the Pain Dr. At this point i take tylenol and lay in bed. It's sad, detrimental to me. I am full of so much energy its unheard of and all I may do is be a prisoner in my home and mind. Thank you

    1. That’s crazy. That should be an indication that you wouldn’t abuse the pain meds. Most doctors cannot write prescriptions for pain. You normally have to go to a Pain Management center.

    2. I'm concerned that someone would call you a "good girl" because does that mean the provider believes people who get pain medications are bad people?

  3. I have seen more than 200 hundred doctors and specialists. Its just sickening

    1. I am so sorry you are going through this. It's such a big issue for people who honestly are dealing with so much pain. I hope you find a doctor that will understand your needs and help you to find some relief. I know this is so hard to deal with. ~Racquel~ lupus.net(Team Member)

      1. I'm coming off Medrol (a steroid) and I'm having a weight issue as well. As for tramadol..🤢. It really didn't help and it took a long time to detox.

      2. , I'm sorry you're dealing with Medrol related wieght gain. I know it can be a real pain in the rear. I hope you don't experience increased pain or inflammation as you taper down the Medrol and that you are able to drop some of those extra pounds, should you want to.

        Best, Erin, Team Member.

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