What Lupus Pain Feels Like According to Patients

As with any diagnosis, lupus affects people differently. However, most people with lupus experience lupus pain at some point. It may include pain in specific joints. For others, it means soreness and discomfort all over the body. No matter where or how lupus pain affects you, there is no question that it can impact all areas of your life.

To learn more about how community members would describe their lupus pain, we reached out to followers of our Facebook page. We asked you to fill in the blank: “My lupus feels like _____________.”

Nearly 120 of you responded, and here is what you shared.

Lupus pain feels like you have been run over

The overwhelming majority of people described their lupus pain as a sensation that affects their whole body. They feel battered as if every bit of them has been smashed or run over. Several said the aches feels like they were knocked or knocked over.

“It feels like you have been trampled by horses or in a car accident every day.”

“I am one big huge bruise that someone has their hand on!”

“Like I was used as a punching bag.”

“A Mack truck hit me at 55 miles per hour with a screaming migraine.

“I got hit with a Mack truck, and I did not get the plate number.”

Lupus pain feels like the flu

Many people described lupus pain as similar to having the flu. Think chills, bone-weary aches, and fatigue throughout your entire body. The pain can be numbing and leave you feeling drained of all energy.

“I explain it to others as feeling like the flu: achy joints, muscles, bones.”

“Getting the flu (all over and when I feel feverish and clammy).”

“The flu, and I cannot get enough sleep.”

Lupus pain feels like fire

For some, the lupus pain is sharp and intense, in a way that can be described as heat. It can strike like an electric shock. Some described it as a searing discomfort, much like a burning sensation.

“My veins are pumping pain instead of blood. That is the way I describe my flares.”

“It is electric and very painful.”

“Like someone set my insides on fire.”

Lupus pain causes uncertainty

Perhaps the hardest part of dealing with lupus is that the pain changes from day to day. This unpredictability makes it hard to make plans. This guessing game is both physically and emotionally challenging.

“Every day is a roll of the dice. I wonder, ‘What am I going to get hit with today?’
And what I figured out to deal with yesterday might or might not work for today.
Nothing is guaranteed 2 days in a row.”

“A game of Russian roulette. Anywhere from OK to worse.”

Will lupus pain ever end?

Regardless of whether the lupus pain is different every day or whether it shows up as the same pain day in and day out, nearly everyone said that the pain never goes away. The never-ending pain causes many people living with lupus to feel also feel fatigued and mentally drained.

“I do not honestly remember a day or night without pain.”

“A life sentence.”

Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences about managing lupus pain. We appreciate hearing from so many members of the lupus community and your willingness to be open with each other.