Things You Need From Family and Friends For SupportPeople often don’t understand how a person with lupus (or any autoimmune disease) could need different kinds of support from loved ones. A prime example, I needed the medication for my...reactionscomments
The Silent Battle Beneath My Pretty PolishFor most women, a pedicure is a pampering ritual. A chance to unwind, choose a vibrant new shade. Additionally, to leave with toes and hands that feel as good as...reactions6comments
My Benlysta JourneyWhen I was first diagnosed with lupus in the summer of 2012, the first medication my doctor started me on was hydroxychloroquine. I was on that for about nine months...reactions6comments
How Has Lupus Affected My Dental Health?Before lupus I rarely had any dental issues. But, after getting lupus, my dental health has progressively gotten worse. Lupus can affect any part of our body including our teeth...reactionscomments
Mental Health with Chronic IllnessI had a situation recently that really triggered me. I was browsing some forums when I stumbled across a very sad post from a person that had been severely struggling...reactionscomments
Scratching the Surface: The Itching Lupus BattleLet's be honest, lupus likes to throw shade at every aspect of our lives. We all know the fatigue, the joint pain, the brain fog that makes you forget why...reactions21comments
How Are You So Positive?One question that I get asked a lot is how am I so positive after everything that I have been through. Especially when I meet people for the first time...reactions1comment
Signs Of A Heart AttackWe’ve all seen the TV show or movie where a man suddenly clutches his chest, gasps, and falls to the ground. To which we later learn he has had a...reactions3comments
Don't Catch It If You Can: Lupus and Contagious ConditionsJust recently my daughter had her fourth birthday party. Being an autoimmune disease mother who tries to be so careful, I do not know how I end up getting sick...reactions1comment
Lupus Diagnosis Anniversary: Do's and Don'tsA lupus diagnosis anniversary marks the date on which an individual was diagnosed with lupus. This anniversary can be a time of reflection on the journey with this diagnosis, acknowledgements...reactions10comments
Questions to Ask Your Doctor at Your First AppointmentThat first doctor’s appointment with a new rheumatologist can be stressful, no matter how long you’ve lived with lupus. You might be a veteran lupus warrior who is switching doctors...reactionscomments
I Have Lupus…….What Now?When you are newly diagnosed with a big life altering disease, like lupus, there are so many things going through your head. So many thoughts, so many feelings. You’re thinking...reactionscomments
Grief and Chronic IllnessWhen living with a chronic illness like lupus, intense emotional experiences like grief can have an impact on health. Just recently, I lost someone so dear and loving to me...reactions3comments
Say This, Not That: What Not to Say to Your Friend With LupusOne of the hardest parts of being diagnosed with an invisible chronic illness like lupus, is that your friends and family might not understand your illness. Often, they might say...reactionscomments
How To Travel With LupusSince becoming sick with lupus, I travel far less than I used to because the act of traveling is difficult due to the fatigue I live with everyday. Thirteen years...reactions2comments
Preparation For Blood Work and Testing (And The Wait That Follows)It seems like every time I go into the doctor anymore they want to order more testing. Blood work, X-rays, CT scans, etc. Half of which I haven’t heard of, and...reactions13comments
The Power of Taming Your Inner CriticA lupus diagnosis is a life-altering event. It's common to experience a rollercoaster of emotions. Emotions like fear, anxiety, grief, and guilt can all come flooding in. These emotions, while...reactionscomments
Getting Your Nails Done with LupusHaving an autoimmune disease like lupus can be overbearing. Sometimes being a mother, wife, and working as well, you tend to not treat yourself when it comes to placing yourself...reactionscomments
A Day in the Life of a Lupus Warrior: Comedy at Its BestThe alarm clock screams. I hit snooze, because, well, lupus. Five minutes later, it screams again. This is a daily gamble. Will today be a "leap out of bed, ready to...reactionscomments
The Best Pets for Lupus PatientsAs soon as I graduated from college and moved into my own place, I knew I wanted a furry friend to share it with. I’d grown up with dogs and...reactionscomments