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Mold

My partner denied my intuition that we have mold. Hired a woman to look into it. It’s all over bathroom. Worsening my symptoms. He has doubted me so much I find myself less drawn to him. I was mentally and sexually abused and my body is feeling ALL of that as I’m now getting help and stopped abusing drugs to pretend I’m fine. Anyone else have this issue with men?

My ovaries are in pain and he says it’s prob fine. I said I won’t discuss your balls and you can stay quiet about my ovaries. cool?

  1. I'm sorry you are dealing with a difficult partner. I can't say I've dealt with this issue. I am so happy you have found different coping skills to deal with it all. I know those things can definitely exasperate symptoms.


    I hope you and your partner find a way to work with each other and communicate for your sake to limit stress. ~Racquel~ lupus.net team member

    1. thank you love


      I am
      Intuitive as most of us women are. For months I’ve suspected mold. I ended up being correct. I think he is beginning to understand I’m not a hypochondriac as I’ve explained that’s often based on sexism. Feels good to be validated and thank you for your message ♥️♥️

      1. the mold can trigger so many health issues for sure. Many who don't understand can say and do some hurtful things. So good it has begun to sink in . It will definitely help you in the long run. My pleasure reach out anytime if you have questions.~Racquel~ lupus.net team member

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