CommunityMember4706f2
I just found out I have lupus. I'm waiting for Mri results of the brain, but now that I know that I have lupus. My biggest worry was how my brain has been functioning. So now I'm thinking the worst. Can anyone give me any advice on someone dealing with lupus attacking the brain.
Erin Rush Community Admin
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Amber Blackburn, RN Moderator & Contributor
Hi there! I don’t have diagnosed brain involvement. But I, like many, deal with brain fog a LOT. For me that means just feeling foggy. Like it’s hard to make sense of things. Or I have trouble expressing myself. Sometimes that looks like knowing what I want to say, and just not being able to get it out. My family now just tries to figure out the word I’m missing. Sometimes it’s helpful. Other times I hate it. Other ways the fog impacts me is forgetting to do things. I’ve gotten better at dealing with this by keeping a running todo list in the notes on my phone. So as soon as I think of it, if I can’t do it right then, it goes right on that list. There are a lot of other symptoms but I won’t make you read them all lol. The days when it’s bad I just tell those closest to me that it’s a bad fog day or that the fog is thick. That way they know what’s going on. I know as someone newly diagnosed lupus can be scary. Just try and take it day by day. Because every day may be different. I’ll be praying that your MRI doesn’t show any thing major, and it’s “just” symptoms of lupus, like brain fog. Even though I hate using the word just, bc lupus is much more. But I hope you get it. Please let us know how the MRI comes out, if you are comfortable sharing that with us. Big hugs! Amber (lupus.net team moderator)
WildNFree Member
This probably would not work for everyone, but after years of frustration, I find that it works for me. I combine a specific diet, exercise program and brain stimulating activities to keep me going. Still, I find people like to end sentences for me because I lose a word or pause when I interact. At this point, I let them do it, praise them for their comments, smile, and move on. I empower myself and don't depend on anyone else to provide that for me.
I wish you well. As time goes on, you too will find a combination of strategies to attack the challenges. You will feel frustration sometimes - okay, maybe a lot. Here is a hint when speaking with a health care provider: tell them the positive actions you are taking and how they are helping rather than telling them only about the difficulties. Their response is generally to encourage other positive interventions. Of course your doctor needs to know what is happening to you but how you approach your description shows if you are a fighter or plan to retreat. Don't retreat!