I want to find a good Rheumatologist that specializes and understands Lupus. I have not been officially diagnosed yet. I do not want to be told it's all in my head or I just want attention. What is happening to my body and mind are real. My pain is real, my memory issues/confusion/screwed up thought process are all real. I feel I have a good care team with my PCP, cardiologist, and pulmonologist. My neurologist, I'm on the fence, she sent me to a physiotherapist that I feel was a freaking quack - very unprofessional. When I told him I was not really interested in taking anti depressants, that I felt I am not depressed, that I would rather find another way to deal with my anxiety than putting more chemicals in my body. He immediately told me the appointment was over and to leave his office. He then proceeded to tell me I didn't want to get better and all I wanted was attention, that it's all in my head. Needless to say I was stunned, upset and then pissed off. Now I am very leery about seeing any new doctors.
My arthritis is getting progressively worse and I want someone who will take my symptoms seriously. All my symptoms and health issues fall into the Lupus wheelhouse and I feel finding the right Rheumatologist is moving in the right direction. (Sorry, I didn't intend for this to be so long)
Any advice on finding the right Dr. would be very much appreciated.
Thank you in advance.