Feeling like my health care team doesn't care as much as they should
Does anyone ever get tired of feeling like your doctors aren't placing enough importance on your symptoms?
I've been struggling with sinus tachycardia and hypertension. It feels like there is no sense of urgency to correct it despite having lupus nephritis.
For both ER and UC visits after hours of sitting in a room I get a "Well, it's a little better now." And get sent home.
I tried explaining to my doctors that yes, I understand hypertension and tachycardia won't kill me right away, but it's interrupting my daily life. I have a job that requires me to work on my feet all day. I can't work when I start having tremors and I can't even relax at home when my heart rate is double what it should be.
All I get is "Do you need a doctor note for work?"
No! I want my life back!
What ways have you had success in conveying the importance of your situation to your care team?
I think it can be a challenge to get medical professionals to listen to patients for a variety of reasons,
. I wish communication weren't yet another challenge to deal with when it comes to your healthcare! I wish I could tell you *why* your doctors don't seem to take your concerns seriously, but your guess is as good as mine. Have your doctors suggested any treatments for your conditions? Like medications? Are you on medication for your hypertension?
I am sorry I don't have a great suggestion for getting your medical team to listen to you and I hope our community members can offer some good tips for you to try!
In the meantime, please know you are not alone in this and I take your symptoms and your feelings seriously.
Best, Erin, Lupus.net Team Member.
my PCP won't give me my medication. She claims she knows nothing about it. Funny thing is I'm no Doc and I know more about the medication than she does. I'm on Medicade so doctors a slim Pickens around my small town , ugh. I hear you. It stinks when your choices of healthcare providers are, well, limited. It's frustrating, to say the least.
Best, Erin, Team Member.
Yes, for sure! You are not alone in this one!
It's so hard to get doctors to understand the depth or symptoms. I have found I have to advocate for myself in so many different ways. I wrote an article about it https://lupus.net/living/advocating-for-yourself
If you don't take anything from that article do take this... being open and honest with your communication with your doctor is important. That includes being upfront and unhappy with the care they are providing. Sometimes it is an uncomfortable conversation that needs to be held. I know it is so frustrating but maybe having a honest conversation with your doctor can help. Some doctors are in a habit to just go through the motions until someone points out otherwise. I hope that helps some. ~Racquel ~ lupus.net team memberI’m’m sorry to hear that. That is just not acceptable. You shouldn’t have had to worry about that. ~Racquel~ lupus.net team member I am blessed to have a great team of Doctors. PCP, Pulmonary and Rheumatologist. I asked lots of questions. My Care team answerers them always. Communication is very important.
Yes
, I'm so sorry you have experienced this as well. I hope there is some comfort in knowing that you are not alone.
Gabby (team member)Yes, I'm well aware of that. Seems to happen mostly to women.
