I’ve been having symptoms of lupus since I was pregnant with my son, who just turned 6 last week. I’ve brought up all my symptoms to my doctor on multiple occasions over the years but have not seen her in over 2 years because she doesn’t believe anything is wrong with me. She claims I’m depressed and just keeps pushing antidepressants. I have been to two naturopaths as well, to try and get to the root cause of my symptoms. I have been eating extremely healthy, taking extra vitamins and supplements, exercising, not drinking any alcohol or caffeine, and limiting my sugar intake. I should be the picture of health, but I am not. My hair has been falling out for almost 7 years and is so dry and damaged that my hairdresser is in shock that I lead such a healthy lifestyle. I can barely get out of bed in the morning because my knees are so stiff and achy. I’ve had Raynaud's since I was 13. My iron levels remain depleted despite my constant intake of red meat and supplements. My short-term memory is nonexistent and my fatigue is terrible. The sun is my enemy, I feel ill after 10 minutes of exposure. My doctor wouldn’t send me to a rheumatologist because 3 years ago I had an ANA test come back negative. This made me feel crazy and that maybe all these things were in my head. I am seeing my doctor again for the first time next week because for the last 3 months I’ve been suffering from lip sores (cheilitis) that won’t go away. Has anyone else had a negative ANA but later had a positive one?