Confused

I HAVE HAD A LOT OF HEALTH ISSUES FOR YEARS, BUT NEVER GOT AN ANSWER.

MY LAST DOCTORS APPT. SHE ASKED, "DID YOU KNOW YOU HAVE LUPUS?"
WHAT? "NO".

FOUR YEARS AGO I WAS READY TO HAVE A KNEE REPLACEMENT AND THEY SUDDENLY PULLED MY IVS BECAUSE MY BLOOD WORK CAME BACK THAT IT WAS THIN, SO I WAS SENT TO ONCOLIGIST FOR BLOOD WORK,I WAS TOLD MY CLOTTING TIME WAS NORMAL BUT MY BLOOD WAS THIN.

Symptoms for many years

I HAVE HAD COMPLAINTS OVER THE YEARS, I HAVE DRY EYES, DRY SKIN. DENTIST SAID I HAVE VERY DRY MOUTH, RINSES DIDN'T WORK, I GET SORES IN MY MOUTH. EYES TENDER TO LIGHT. TYPE TWO DIABETES, HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, UNDER ACTIVE THYRIOD, DEAF IN ONE EAR FROM BLOOD CLOT BURST.

WHEN I GET UPSET, MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY TIRED FOR DAYS. ARTHRITIS IN BACK, HANDS, NECK. I HAVE HAD TWO KNEE REPLACEMENTS AND ONE HIP. I HAVE A RASH ACROSS MY CHEEKS AND NOSE AND IT FEELS LIKE A SUN BURN WHEN IT ACTS UP. ALL THIS TIME I THOUGHT IT WAS BECAUSE MY BLOOD PRESSURE WAS UP.

A new doctor

SO AFTER YEAR YEARS OF THIS BEING IN MY FILES, IT POPS UP. THIS ISN'T THE DOCTOR I WAS SEEING AT THE TIME. SHE SAID, "WELL ITS NOT AS BAD AS SOME." I DIDN'T SAY A WORD. ALL THIS TIME I HAVE HAD THESE ISSUES AND NO ONE LISTENED...

What should I tell my doctor?

SO I GO BACK IN A WEEK TO SEE MY DOCTOR, ALWAYS FOR SUGAR CHECK, EVERY THREE MONTHS. DO I TELL HER ALL THESE ISSUES OR DO I JUST GO ON THINKING ITS IN MY HEAD? I HAVE LEARNED HOW TO DEAL WITH THE ISSUES, BUT I TIRED OF WONDERING IF THERE'S HELP AND I'M NOT NUTS. I ALSO SUFFER FROM DEPRESSION 'SURPRISE'.

WELL THANK YOU FOR LISTENING, FELT GOOD TO SAY IT ALL TO SOMEONE. MY HUSBAND DOESN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY, SO HE SAYS NOTHING.

SORRY FOR CAPS. DIDN'T LOOK UP TILL NOW AND DONT WANT TO REWRITE IT........SHERRY

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