I know I replied to another comment of yours on this topic, but I am so sorry I didn't relpy to this one earlier, ! It's just frustrating and demoralizing to have family members saying hurtful, unsupportive things to you.
Please know you can come here anytime you need to vent.
I hope you are having a decent weekend yourself and having some low pain days as well!
Best, Erin, Team Member.